ODD/ADHD

Signs of Oppositional Defiance Disorder (some of them, taken from the Oasis Guide to Asperger Syndrome)

*Frequent Temper Tantrums
*Excessive arguing with adults
*Active defiance and refusal to comply with adult requests and rules
*Deliberate attempts to annoy or upset people
*Blaming others for his or her mistakes or misbehaviour
*Often being touchy or easily annoyed by others
*Frequent anger and resentment
*Mean and hateful talking when upset
*Seeking revenge

This is Cyclone ALL OVER. Every day. It's just ridiculous and he is so freaking NEGATIVE it drives me spare. Poor kid - how can you be happy being like this?

Cyclone isn't happy. He has nightmares and relives the days events. Some nights he cries at bedtime because he hates the things that he does. "I can't stop it mummy, my head gets all hot". He hates being like this, he says he hates himself and the world hates him too.

Never more heartbreaking words for a mother to hear from her son.


ADHD


The three primary characteristics of ADD/ADHD are inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity. The signs and symptoms a child with attention deficit disorder has depends on which characteristics predominate.

*Inattentive but not hyperactive or impulsive
*Hyperactive and impulsive, but able to pay attention
*Inattentive, hyperactive and impulsive (the most common form, and this is Cyclone)



Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is a disorder that appears in early childhood. You may know it by the name attention deficit disorder, or ADD. ADD/ADHD makes it difficult for people to inhibit their spontaneous responses—responses that can involve everything from movement to speech and attentiveness.

The signs and symptoms of ADD/ADHD typically appear before the age of seven. However, it can be difficult to distinguish between attention deficit disorder and normal “kid behavior.” If you spot just a few signs, or the symptoms appear only in some situations, it’s probably not ADD/ADHD. On the other hand, if your child shows a number of ADD/ADHD signs and symptoms that are present across all situations at home, at school, and at play it’s time to take a closer look.

(from Helpguide.org)

I've refused to consider ADHD up until now because of all the negative connotations and constant mentions of Ritalin. I'm researching everything properly now.


My poor Cyclone - so far it looks like he has the Full Menu of Neurological issues. Lucky he has a FANTASTIC sense of humour and is really, really, good looking.